Hi Sue, I would recommend going to one of our Centers of Excellence in MDS for a second opinion. Since you are 6 hrs away from the closest center, maybe you can go once every six months and then have your local hematologist, who may be one mile from you, carry out the treatment plan that the MDS expert recommends.
If it is Vidaza that you are referring to, in the very beginning he may feel even worse before he feels better. This actually shows that the drug is working. Hypomethylating agents delete the bad cells but in the very beginning some of the good cells can get caught up in it. So it’s important to not stop too soon to give the medicine a chance to work. He may not respond to treatment until he has finished at least four treatment cycles – or about four to six months.