Hey Fran, I had TMJ for years after a car accident. I found relief from a chiropractor that was able to get my jaw to release and go back where it was supposed to be. I finally got it to stay in place after I treated a sinus infection that was caused by a previously broken nose. The sinus infection kept my jaw and the muscles and glands around it irritated so the dentist wasn’t able to help my TMJ.
Before you buy an expensive appliance consider that you have other options. I tried everything before I found what worked. Have your daughters come and see you. Don’t be afraid to tell them that you don’t want to leave your husband right now. Surely you can find a compromise. But if you need time away for yourself and you want to go for a couple of days ask Jim’s doctor or nurse the best time to go. You can’t be everything to everyone. Do what you need to do for yourself also. Lindajo