Jaggyone: I can feel your pain because i am now facing the same maybe even worse situation than yours. My mum was diagnosed with AML-M5 last July. After several months of chemo treatment,doctors “noticed” that my mum’s disease may progress from rare type of leukemia “CMML”.From then on, she is getting worse and worse even though she wants so strongly to be cured and spend more days with us. But she can’t stop the aggressive progress. My other family members have already well prepared for letting her go. But i just can’t let her go from my hear although i know i probably will lose her at any moment. So everything I could do is to make each day with her count and don’t think of the numbers of days that she can survive. When the sun rises, our hearts should be full of joy because we get another extra day from God. I wish my experience can help you a little. But your husband’s case might be different from my mum. I mean there is still large possiblity for him to recover if he fights it bravely and cooperate with chemo. My mum never quits treatment but treatments quited her.