Not given much info

[ellebeegrace]

I don’t known if this is normal or if we should find another doctor.

My husband has been seeing a hematologist for anemia for a few months now. They ran a bunch of tests and said his folic acid was slightly low. So they put him on folic acid for 3 months, then followup with the Dr. RBC, hemoglobin, hematocrit were all still low at followup so they scheduled a bone marrow biopsy.

Got bone marrow biopsy done, was scheduled for followup with the doctor’s nurse practitioner. She said she and the Dr went over his results and he has MDS.

She didn’t give us much info and we didn’t know what to ask. She told us it’s a type of cancer, but not leukemia. Said he would get shots every 3 weeks to increase his RBC. He got a shot that day. Retacrit Injection. They also want him on folic acid and B6 for the rest of his life.

So that is about all we knew walking out of the office that day. I have since been reading up on it. And looked in his patient portal for more info — they don’t have an MDS subtype listed in his diagnosis. It says “Myelodysplastic syndrome, unspecified.” They didn’t tell us his risk level, but have figured out from his test results and the course of treatment that he is probably low risk.

His next appt is not until Nov 3rd, aside from his next Retacrit Injection on Oct 13.

Is it normal to be given so little info from the doctor? And is it normal for the doctor’s nurse practitioner to give the diagnosis instead of the doctor? His next appointment is with the nurse again instead of the doctor.

Should we go to a Center of Excellence? Closest one is 3 hours away, but we’d be willing to make the trip. Or I know The West Clinic in Memphis is really good and is only 1 hour from us. My dad’s cancer was treated there, and other people I know have been treated there.

It just does not feel right to me, how things are going so far with this doctor and nurse.

Thanks for any insight y’all can give!

[Rita Knopick]

I recently lost my husband to MDS that transitioned to AML. I strongly suggest you have your husband seen at a Center of Excellence as soon a possible. You can call the MDS Foundation and they will assist you with getting an appointment.

Do not be reluctant to ask as many questions as you need to his hematologist and NP. The more informed that you are the better advocate you will be for your husband.

Best wishes and prayers.

[Kevin Dugan]

Before jumping ship, I would make sure doctor knows what you need. Get copies of all tests, Put your questions in written form so you won’t forget. Then insist that you speak with the dr. at your next appt. If they won’t answer your questions then look elsewhere.

[Ava Rappaport]

When I was diagnosed in December I too didn’t receive much information from the doctor and NP. Now I receiving answers. Give then a chance. The more you read and educate yourself, you will get answers.

[Michael]

I was diagnosed in July 2016. Local hematologist gave me a brief overview and recommended Vidazza ASAP. When I went for first follow up, I was seen by PA, who couldn’t answer any of my questions. This caused me to pause and seek second opinion at a Ctr. of Excellence. Best move I’ve made. Vidazza was cancelled and I was put on watch and wait. The difference in BMB results from local hematologist and COE was dramatic. The COE is 3 hrs travel time each way. I go there at 6 month intervals. The COE dr. guides my treatment and performs annual BMB. I see local hematologist for monthly blood work. I am still on watch and wait.

A COE visit and opinion is highly encouraged.

[Richard Lin]

Agree with all. In addition, most centers offer televideo consults you can do it at home, as long as they have all your records.

[ellebeegrace]

Thank you all for your responses, and I apologize for taking awhile to respond. This has all been a bit overwhelming, to say the least.

My husband had an appointment with our PCP this week, whom we love and trust. She said my husband’s hematologist is good and is very thorough. She suggested rescheduling the next appointment and specifically asking for the hematologist and not his nurse. So we did that, even though we’ll have to wait an extra week to get in.

Our PCP also told me to ask the hematologist for a copy of the pathology report and said if he tries to avoid giving me one, to insist on it. She said doctors here aren’t used to patients who study the test results and the disease like I do (I have a “rare” disease myself and have had to do my own research because my doctors don’t know enough about it).

I agree with y’all about going to a Center of Excellence. Our PCP did too. So we are going to ask for a referral. Our PCP said the hematologist won’t be offended and that care will be coordinated with the local hematologist.

So we feel a little better about it all. I think I just need to try to stop stressing over it all. My husband prefers knowing the bare minimum, and looks to me to tell him anything important, while I prefer to research and understand as much as I can. But I can stress myself out a lot if I don’t watch it. I don’t like unanswered questions.

Thanks again to all of you. It is good to know we’re not alone in this.

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