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  • #11078
    karenkay
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    at about 7:50 pm on Dec. 30. It was a rough day for him and once we got the right medicine on board for him to relax he quietly passed away. Kathy and I were there (although he waited until I left the room for a few minutes). He died surrounded in love, I hope he felt that; I believe he did.
    The doctor was very surprised that he went as quickly as he did. They thought he would live about another week or so. He was always so stoic, I think he was much sicker than we thought.
    God rest his soul and he is free from this dreaded disease.
    Wishing all of you health and happiness in the new year. I hope we can all live each day as if it were our last.
    Peace and God’s blessings,
    Karenk

    #11079
    Bkwits
    Member

    KAREN

    My deepest sympathy to you and your family. I know that you’ll miss your father very much. I hope you find some comfort in knowing that you helped to bring him some peace and comfort in his last days.
    My heart is aching for you.
    Barb

    #11080
    ButchL
    Participant

    Karen….

    I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

    Butch

    #11081
    gemloyear
    Member

    Karen , Sincere sympathy, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
    Ellie

    #11082
    sugarwhale
    Member

    Dear Karen,
    I am so very sorry you lost your dad. He still lives in you. You are a good daughter. I was with my dad when he died too, and I loved him with all my soul. So I think I understand what you are feeling now. Yes, we should live each day as though it were our last. Please know that I am thinking of you in my heart and mind and accept my deepest sympathy to you and to your family.
    Yours in friendship,
    Janet

    #11083
    patti
    Member

    Karen,

    I am sorry for your loss. You did a wonderful job caring for your dad. Wishing you a peaceful New Year.

    Best wishes,

    patti

    #11084
    eve
    Member

    karen

    my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this most difficult time

    eve

    #11085
    Jerry
    Member

    Karen …

    Debbie and I are holding you in our thoughts today as we enter into this new year. You were marvelous to your Dad and did all that you could have. May he rest in peace filled with your love and my you live a long and healthy life filled with his. God Bless.

    Jerry

    #11086
    Kathy G
    Member

    Karen –
    I am so sorry – I can feel your pain as I just lost my Dad on Dec 20th. It still doesn’t feel real and it’s going to be a long, hard road moving forward. It is good that they are finally out of the pain this disease causes but I am sure your heart is as heavy as mine missing him.
    You are in my thoughts and prayers.

    Kathy G

    #11087
    shirlsgirl
    Member

    Dear Karen,

    I’m so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family..

    Jody

    #11088
    Ensnee
    Member

    Karen, I’m sorry your dad is gone, but glad he was peaceful at the end. You know, I have a friend whose mother died when she and her sister had left the room, after days and days of almost continuously sitting by her side. The nurse told them that it happens this way more often than not, as if the person wants to spare the loved ones the pain of being there when he or she goes.

    My thoughts are with you all at this sad time.
    Please take care, and know that all of us here are with you in spirit.

    Esme

    #11089
    Ani
    Member

    Karen

    So sorry to read of your father’s death, yes, it was so sudden, he seemed to have settled in well.
    I pray that the Lord holds you and your family in His Light. Be at peace you have done a wonderful job of caring for your father.
    Shalom
    Ani

    #11090
    CarolineG
    Member

    Karen,

    I am so sorry that your Dad died. I wish there was some way that I could help you. I know that your strong faith in the Lord will help you through this along with the knowledge that your Dad is just a whisper away. He will always be right there with you and your family.

    Blessings,
    Caroline

    #11091
    PAG2005
    Member

    Karen,

    I’m sorry to hear that your Dad passed away. My thought and prayers are with you and your family. Pat

    #11092
    Kathryn
    Member

    Karen, I am so sorry for your loss. I know what an emotional rollercoaster ride this has been for you and I am wishing you peace.

    I had left the room as well when my father passed away after spending all night & day w/ him. My brother came to the waiting room right after me and he said that nothing had changed and then we got the call to come back.

    I know that your father, as well as my own, felt the love that surrounded them. I hope that knowing he is free will bring peace to your heart. May your love & your memories bring you strength.

    You and your family are in my prayers.

    Best wishes,

    Kathryn

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