Patti, Don’t get so hung up on the heart rate. Your MIL might be telling the truth, that she does feel fine. Sometimes I feel my worst when my counts are closest to normal. My heart always slows down when my hmg drops but it isn’t a warning sign, I feel like my body is just going into a conserving mode. Kind of like a computer that powers down or when a person is drowning their body powers down to maintain essential functions.
She probably tanked this week because her hmg is so low. If she isn’t doing a lot her heart rate will be lower than if she is active. Her heart rate might go back up as soon as she is transfused.
She how she feels after the transfusion. I know that sometimes I don’t know how bad I feel, until I feel better.
This is hardest on you. You want to help and feel powerless. She has you and room service from the nurses. Just having you there to keep her company is so valuable.
Hope this helps. Linda